Punished For Looking Good In a Tux

I’ve been reading about the out gay high school senior in Mississippi and her supportive mother who have engaged an ACLU lawyer in a battle against the school officials who banned her photo from the yearbook on the grounds that she was wearing a tuxedo instead of a drape.

 


Ceara Sturgis in her Tux

Ceara Sturgis makes me feel hope for the future. She can’t be more than 18 years old; she’s fresh-faced and completely adorable, with an emo hipster haircut and a certain confidence in herself that just moves me to tears. I defy you to watch the following video clips and not tear up as Ceara asks what’s so wrong with her wearing a tux, anyway, her tone ironic and easy, underscoring a complete lack of shame. Just try to keep a dry eye as her mother says, “Gay or not, I don’t care; that’s my daughter and I love her.”

I get dejected about the state of things at times, in terms of our rights, social stigma, and all the ways we’re institutionally dehumanized… but I have to say, seeing this girl who is so willing to advocate for herself and empowered enough to do it — and a mother who backs her up all the way — shows me that her generation is reaping some of the benefits of a turning tide.

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L.H.R.'s picture

Betty's List gets in on the fray!

By way of http://www.bettyslist.com I got an email this morning containing the following:

Note from Betty: As your "Betty's List" editor, I invite you to join me in supporting a delightful young woman by sending your own message, as I have, down home to Mississippi.

Send the sample letter below - or your own version thereof - to the Copiah County School District officials letting them know that you support Ceara Sturgis' wish to have her photo wearing a tux published in her high school's yearbook.

* Where to Send Your Statement in Support of Ceara Sturgis -

Principal Ronald Greer
rdgreer@copiah.k12.ms.us

Copiah County Schools Superintendent Ricky Clopton
rclopton@copiah.k12.ms.us

Thanks to all who take a moment to speak up in support of Ceara Sturgis!

Dear Mr. Clopton:

Your decision to uphold Principal Greer’s decision to intervene in the publication of Ceara Sturgis' yearbook photograph based on a personal "conviction," a conviction without any objective policy rationale, is inconsistent with the values of the Copiah County School District, whose stated mission is to provide "learning opportunities that will enable students to become productive and well-adjusted citizens in an ever-changing society." Indeed, it is difficult to see his exercise of power as anything other than a simple case of bullying.

Women can run for president, serve on the U.S. Supreme Court, and preside over our nation's most prestigious universities. And yes, they can even wear tuxedos.

Please address this injustice, and allow Ceara Sturgis' photograph to be published in the 2009 Wesson Attendance Center high school yearbook.

Respectfully,

-----------------------------------------------

Thanks, Betty!

MacLass_19's picture

This is what 'parenting' is all about.....

“Gay or not, I don’t care; that’s my daughter and I love her."

Could her mother be any more awesome.....

Smile

 

Rockets's picture

I hope

She sues them *and wins* but good.

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L.H.R.'s picture

Hi Rockets, Couldn't agree

Hi Rockets,

Couldn't agree more--I really liked that she pointed out how it's okay for the straight kids to mock queerness and be included, but not for her to just be herself.

minniesota's picture

Dear Principal

Let Ceara WEAR A TUX! I hope she wears that tux to graduation too.

What the heck is a drape anyway? Is that a Southern thing? Whatever it is, I'm sure I wouldn't like to wear one.

Civility is not a sign of weakness.

Tex's picture

Photo "drape"....

minniesota's picture

Yikes

Tex, that page scared me!

Thank goodness, I didn't have to wear a velvet drape for my senior photo taken way back when.

Civility is not a sign of weakness.

Rusty's picture

Noooooo

OMFG, I would have put a world of hurt on anyone who even suggested I'd have my picture taken in that.

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Tex's picture

My senior picture....

velvet drape!

skate's picture

They take the curtain off the

They take the curtain off the school stage and tell the kids to wear it.

minniesota's picture

That is weird. Boys too? Must

That is weird. Boys too? Must boys wear the curtain? Maybe I am happy that I live in the Midwest. Hah.

Civility is not a sign of weakness.

Robin Rigby's picture

Gotta be a southern thing.

Gotta be a southern thing.  Even way back when when I was having my senior photo taken we were allowed to wear whatever we wanted.  It was just accepted that you'd dress up even nicer than for prior year's photos.  

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Tex's picture

It is ....

a southern thing

Not2Taem's picture

Or not

I just looked and my oldest sister's MA yearbook picture looks like that.

Mine definitely does not.  Wink

Not2Taem's picture

No Mins, it's a sexist thing.

They do not tell boys to remove their shirts so they can drape them. It's a bunch of archaic BS.

minniesota's picture

Bad Dr. Suess imitation

Mi thoughts on drapes:

I would not wear it in a chair,

I would not wear it for a prayer.

Of this thing, I confidently state:

A drape is something I would hate.

Civility is not a sign of weakness.

Not2Taem's picture

Badass Poet

Who knew?

Mins turns out to be a Badass.  Cool

Rusty's picture

Bravo

Bravo

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

skate's picture

Boys wear a blue hunk o'

Boys wear a blue hunk o' curtain, and girls wear a pink

skate's picture

How is this supposed to help

How is this supposed to help this girl's (or anyone else's) education?  Schooling is not education.  Education is everything you ever learn in your life: how to drive, how to read, how to have a relationship with another person, etc.  This story shows a classic example of schooling:  controlling what people wear, excluding or including people based on personal characteristics that have nothing to do with the matter at hand, etc.  I fucking hate most schools.  A few are useful to people, but most spend all their time on mind control.  I've self-instructed in a number of topics that are thought to be impossible to learn without a school, and let me tell you, that way of thinking is nonsense.  Fuck school.  Not education, but school.

Not2Taem's picture

regarding a stick

“Sometimes, if you stand on the bottom rail of a bridge and lean over to watch the river slipping slowly away beneath you, you will suddenly know everything there is to be known.”

I've often thought this about watching small children at play.

Not2Taem's picture

“You can't stay in your

“You can't stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.”

Or put out a casting call.  Evil

Not2Taem's picture

The Wise Bear of Little Brain

Tigger is all right really," said Piglet lazily.
"Of course he is," said Christopher Robin.
"Everybody is really," said Pooh. "That's what I think," said Pooh.
"But I don't suppose I'm right," he said.
"Of course you are," said Christopher Robin.

Perhaps we should have a VP Pooh's Day.

Rusty's picture

more Pooh wisdom

People who don't think probably don't have brains; rather, they have grey fluff that's blown into their heads by mistake. ~ WTP

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Rusty's picture

And also

If the person you are talking to doesn't appear to be listening, be patient. It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear. ~ WTP

added citation

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Not2Taem's picture

Poor Pooh

Oh, that just reminded me of the time I decided to clean his ears and pulled about half the fluff out of his head! It was pretty easy since the ear I generally used as a handle was hanging by a thread. He also turned green when I gave him a bath. Perhaps this explains my later fascination with Spock.

Rusty's picture

Excellent idea: I am a bear

Excellent idea:

I am a bear of very little brain, and long words bother me. ~  WTP

edited to add citation

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Rusty's picture

Protected Speech

"You can't discriminate against somebody because they're not masculine enough or because they're not feminine enough. She's making an expression of her sexual orientation through this picture and that invokes First Amendment protection."

~ Kristy L. Bennett, the ACLU of Mississippi's legal director on MSNBC's website (I can't remember if it was included in the video).

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/33336200/ns/us_news-life/

 

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

L.H.R.'s picture

That's what she said

According to this excellent HuffPo article, Ceara claims her tux is absolutely an expression of being gay ("I feel like I'm not important, that the school is dismissing who I am as a gay student...")

Read more at: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/10/16/ceara-sturgis-lesbian-hig_n_323968.html

. Whether that's how it'll be interpreted legally--well, that's another issue.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/10/16/ceara-sturgis-lesbian-hig_n_323...

CA_Medicine_Woman's picture

Unfortunately...

... Bennet is mistaken.

The US Supreme Court ruled fairly recently that minors participating in a school function or event, whether directed by the school or by a third party, do not have Free Speech rights if officials reasonably claim the exercise of such would be disruptive or pose a safety risk to one or more students (Morse v. Frederick, 2007).

Employers and schools may also apply gender specific dress codes, so long as such dress codes do not interfere with the ability to perform the requirements necessary to the employment or education (Jeperson v. Harrah's, 2006).

I'm not saying I agree with the rulings, or the increasingly hostile environment LGBT children are facing in schools today, only that Bennet is in error with that statement.

Rusty's picture

Tinker v Des Moines is the precedent to follow

Neither case you cited applies to this case.

Morse v. Frederick is about a kid who held up a banner at school that said, "bong hits 4 Jesus".  Even though it was a pro-drug message at school, it was still only a 5-4 and Justice Robert's majority opinion said the ruling only applied to drug messages. (I have a problem with this ruling. I would have allowed the banner. I'm just pointing out that the case does not apply.)

It's even more far-fetched to cite Jeperson v. Harrah's since that case involved Harrah's Casino requiring a woman to wear makeup while tending bar. SCOTUS hasn't heard the case and what the 9th Circuit actually said was that Jesperson hadn't met the burden to show that Harrah's policy was discriminatory. It didn't say that the policy was actually constitutional — only that she hadn't met the burden.

The controlling case would clearly be Tinker v. Des Moines. This case gave First Amendment protection to student speech except where the speech would cause a disturbance. Clearly the school had to show that a girl's picture in a tux would have caused a disturbance. And that is a massive fail. They will fold and her picture will be in the Yearbook.

There is currently only 1 vote on the Court to overturn Tinker (Thomas).

I'll stick with Bennet's interpretation.

[edited to add link to article with similar cases:

http://www.indy.com/articles/boone-county/thread/lebanon-schools-says-gi...

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

CA_Medicine_Woman's picture

It won't be...

Okay, let's see if I can clear this up a bit...

The narrow focus by Bennet is on Free Speech rights.

What we have is a case where a student wants a publication owners and/or editors to publish a photograph of her wearing a tuxedo in said publication, a school yearbook.  That the female student is openly lesbian, gets top grades, is active in extracurricular activities is not relevant.

What is relevant is whether or not any individual, group, or organization has the right to force a publisher (or broadcaster) to publish (or broadcast) an image.  While Amendment I does state we have Free Speech rights, Amendment I also protects the Press.  I have yet to find one case since 1981, when Ronald Reagan suspended the Fairness Doctrine (which applied only to news reporters and commentators), in which the courts have stated a publication or broadcaster must publish or broadcast a particular point of view, whether an original or rebuttal statement.

That Democrats currently support the continued suspension of the Fairness Doctrine won't help matters, either.  Because of this, publishers and broadcasters are not required to publish an oppositional statement (or other forms of free speech) in rebuttal to a previously published or broadcasted statement.  Prior to the suspension of the Fairness Doctrine, I can find no case in which the courts have ordered that a publisher or broadcaster MUST publish or broadcast original statements (or other forms) of free speech.  BTW, the media isn't even required to tell you the truth, thanks to Reagan.

Tinker v. Des Moines (1969) was weakened significantly by the US Supreme Court in Hazelwood School District et al. v. Kuhlmeier et al., (1988).  In that decision, free speech rights within school publications were sharply curtailed.

Also, Morse v. Frederick has been used by schools not only to stop "pro-drug" messages, but also political statements of all sorts, from oppositional to supportive positions on candidates, issues, events, etc.  It is also being used as an excuse to suspend or expel students for free speech activities outside of school hours, off school property, that have no school involvement whatsoever.  All a school need claim, it seems, is that somehow the form and content of free speech was either disruptive to school functions, or posed a safety risk within the school to one or more persons.

And, Jeperson v. Harrah's has been used in the courts, repeatedly and selectively, to justify employment termination or school suspension/expulsion of transgender workers/students.  So long as the dress code does not directly interfere with the employee's/student's ability to work/study as required, nor effects said worker's/student's safety, the dress code is typically upheld.  SInce Title VII does not specifically address differential gender specific dress codes, the various courts tend to lean in the direction of how the 9th Circuit Court ruled in this case.

What is probably needed is a school version of ENDA to address this issue, or an update to Title VII which addresses the issue of gender specific dress codes in school and the workplace. 

Rusty's picture

Not persuaded

The publisher didn't keep her photo out of the yearbook. The principal did. He is an agent of the government so the Fairness Doctrine doesn't come into play. The ACLU is going to argue this on pure speech grounds. That's why Bennet phrased her statement the way she did.

There's a difference between schools using particular court rulings to justify their actions and a court ruling that an actual application is constitutional. In which specific cases has the SCOTUS ruled in favor of a school and used Morse v. Frederick to "not only to stop "pro-drug" messages, but also political statements of all sorts, from oppositional to supportive positions on candidates, issues, events, etc. " Or "as an excuse to suspend or expel students for free speech activities outside of school hours, off school property, that have no school involvement whatsoever"? 

Schools can claim whatever they want. That does not make it constitutional.

I'll stick with Bennet and the ACLU's interpretation of case law and the facts.

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Fastgurrrl's picture

CMW

When I read Bennet's statement, "She's making an expression of her sexual orientation through this picture..." I wasn't so sure about that. I got the distinct impression from listening to Ceara and reading her words, that she was just trying to be comfortable, and be herself. Did Ceara specifically say that she wanted to wear a tux to broadcast her sexuality? I mean, everybody already knows she's gay, right?

CA_Medicine_Woman's picture

Correct

There is no indication whatsoever, prior to this hitting the media, that the picture was part of some sort of political statement or other free speech exercise.  And, no, Ceara's sexuality was no big secret to anyone.

Rusty's picture

It's a legal thing

The easiest way to get her desire to wear the tux allowed under "free speech" and thus protected under the 1st Amendment is to have it rest on political basis. That's why they're using that specific language. This is so they can use Tinker v Des Moines as precedent should it get to court. I don't think it will get that far.

Tinker was a Vietnam War era case. The Tinker kids wore black arm bands to school to protest the war. The Court ruled it was protected speech.

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

CA_Medicine_Woman's picture

Um, there's more to it than that

The school board, learning of the protest with black armbands, pre-emptively acted to block a peaceful and passive form of protest by these specific students, whose political views the school board disagreed with.

If you check my above response (posted after you posted this, sorry), you will see where Tinker no longer applies to school publications.

Rusty's picture

Hazelwood doesn't apply.

Hazelwood doesn't apply. And if it did, the Principal in question comes no where near being able to meet the test in Hazelwood.

Educators do not offend the First Amendment by exercising editorial control over the style and content of student speech in school-sponsored expressive activities so long as their actions are reasonably related to legitimate pedagogical concerns.

Emphasis added.

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

CA_Medicine_Woman's picture

Okay, fine.

I have tried the best I can to present a viewpoint based upon 20 plus years of dealing with this specific issue.  My views are based upon more than a passing familiarity with constitutional, civil rights, education, and labor laws, both at the state and federal levels.  This "self" education is one born out of necessity, both as a student and in my employment, both of which involve extensive interstate travel, and on rare occasions, international travel.  My survival depends on knowing this sort of information.

I'm going to concede that my particular unusual experiences and specific knowledge in this area have no relevance in this discussion. 

You win.

 

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Deb

I appreciated the information that you shared.

Robin Rigby's picture

It was 198? when that boy

It was 198? when that boy took his male date to his prom in Rhode Island.  Have we really progressed so little since then?

When I was in the third grade (in 1970) a bunch of us girls fought for the right to wear pants to school.  There's not a heck of a lot of public schools that would say pants (jeans, etc) are not proper attire in this day and age.  How is a tux any different?  Ridiculous!

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Rusty's picture

The bad old days

Robin, I almost got sent home from kindergarten for wearing pants on the last day of school. My mom gave me permission because she thought I'd just run in and get my report card and come back out. Nope, it was a regular day and the pants were considered "an incident."

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Not2Taem's picture

I remember wearing pants

I remember wearing pants under a dress while walking ot school in the winter and being required to take them off in the seperate girls area of the the cloak room. Mine was the first class allowed to wear pants to 6th grade.

Lake's picture

Thanks Ladies.....

Sometimes I forget to say thank you......I never had to wear a dress to school....I was allowed to wear my tough skins ....Also...I was allowed to play sports!

 

Thank you ladies for opening the doors to all the opportunities!!   Wink

 

 

Lake

Not2Taem's picture

tough skins?

Please elaborate.

Your skin looks as smooth as a fine lady's behind. (I have been fiendishly lax in refreshing.)

Lake's picture

Sears....

jeans with plastic in the knee's.....so you can't rip them!!! Wink

Lake

Not2Taem's picture

That does not sound

That does not sound comfortable.

One of the few positive memories I have of my mother is the day that she brought home matching outfits for my brother and me. Amazingly soft button up jeans and short sleeve western style shirts with faux mother of pearly snaps. Mine was in purple pant and purple on white shirt. His was exactly the same what I'm sure was supposed to be maroon but came of more magenta.  Big smile

Lake's picture

They were...

awesome and I'm sure saved my knees from alot more scarring!!!!   My Grandmother spent her day ordering me stuff from Sears....I had every Winnie the Pooh outfit.....boys and girls!!! Wink

Lake

Not2Taem's picture

Winnie and Me

I had a close relationship with Winnie, but it didn't involve clothes.  Wink

Rusty's picture

The Zen of Pooh

The Zen of Pooh:

“The hardest part is what to leave behind, ... It's time to let go!” Winnie the Pooh

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna