Post-Vacation Resolution

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Post-Vacation Resolution

I took a short break over Christmas. I had time off work and I ran away for a week to be with friends and family. Not an exotic vacation, but a change of environment nonetheless. I expect a lot of people did the same sort of thing.

I regain a proper perspective of life when I take a vacation somewhere. Not because I intend to, in fact it usually takes me by surprise, even though it happens every time. A few days without schedule and suddenly—bam! I'm hit with that magical moment when I forget what day of the week it is. Not because I am too busy to remember, but because it has become unimportant.

What is a day anyway? Why is Monday a frightful ogre and why T.G.I.F? In Japan they are all T.G.I.F.'ing at the exact same time we are still wading through Thursday. Why is the same moment treated differently in different places?

Sometime in ancient history, we labelled the days of the week for our convenience, so that two of us could show up to work (or for a date) at the same time. Then those labels staged a coup and took control of us. They made us prepossessed with what we are scheduled to get done today because the schedule wasn't met yesterday and we are scheduled to take time off from our schedule tomorrow.

A vacation or some other event that makes us step away from our established cycle of existence can open a mental window for us to see each day as it really is: A unique, valuable, irreplaceable portion of my life. Most religions try to get people to adopt this mindset permanently as a pathway to inner peace (“sufficient unto the day are the evils thereof” and so forth).

Not that a having a cycle to your life isn't important. Studies show that people who take at least one day per week and one week per year away from their regular schedule are physically and mentally healthier that those who don't. We are apparently built to live cyclically. (At this point, anyone with a female reproductive system is saying: “Well, duh!”) But that cycle must not be allowed to smother our days in conformist same-ness.

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Comments [10]

Jess Glenny's picture

Love this piece.

Conlite, I think you have the ultimate new year's resolution here. And I'd love to visit where you're living. I'm on the southern. slopes of a valley with a river at the bottom (London).

Conlite's picture

My father's mostly

My father's mostly undistinguished ancestors were a long line of cockneys going back to the time of Chaucer (or so).  So I have visited London a couple of times.  People here ask me if I saw the Queen driving around!  I have lived far away from things for so long, I feel a little bit like Croc. Dundee when I go to a big city (except my knife isn't as big).


Marcie Bianco's picture

i (albeit reluctantly)

i (albeit reluctantly) partook in a pagan circle and mentioned wanting to listen to myself (better/more honestly) .... but, practically and egotistically, i'd like a lot of things for the new year, too. Smile

Tosha's picture


YOU partook in a pagan circle?  lol. i love that.  believe it or not, i don't really ever 'do' resolutions or pagan circles but i did enjoy the article Conlite.  Really well done.

Conlite's picture

Thank you!

Thank you!

Marcie Bianco's picture

well, it wasn't my doing...i

well, it wasn't my doing...i just participated ... more soon Smile

Conlite's picture

So were you being totally

So were you being totally honest with your pagan buddies about what you really want?


Marcie Bianco's picture

i was. i certainly was....i

i was. i certainly was....i just didn't think that saying "I want a bajillion dollars" fit with the sensitivity of the moment....for me, at least Wink

Grace Moon's picture

I usually have a new years

I usually have a new years resolution, but really didn't even think of one this year... but on the spot I'll say to commit to my morning rituals which include a little yoga and little strengthening regime.... And to take at least one week off this year!

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Conlite's picture

You sound vastly more

You sound vastly more organised than me - which is no doubt why you are in charge around here!