might be forced to reconsider her options.
Let’s see what is being triggered between the two of you.
Composite, Cancer Sun
Her Moon and Venus fall in your 7th House of relationship, very nice , while her Sun and Mercury fall in your 8th House, very Hott!. Her nodes conjoin your MC/IC which says she is significant to your public image in some way. Likewise, your North Node also connects to HER MC so again, a public role is suggested here as partners or business or creative associates. Her Saturn connects to your Mars which is either a marriage significator (happens often) OR a big repressive drag.
Saturn can either contain the sexual energy in a monogamous arrangement OR block your sexual expression. She is somewhat afraid of being perceived as different or breaking outside of the box and your rather erratic Mars in Aquarius energy may feel too unsettling for her if she hasn’t dealt with her Saturn (authority) issues.There could be a lovely healing around this for her this year however with Jupiter/Chiron/Neptune aspecting her Saturn.But of course, you are connecting now when you are both experiencing cosmic wakeup calls around
How you show your self and your power. And because as a Libra and a Taurus, you are both ruled by Venus, inherent in your story is the issue of value. What is important to you, what do you think is beautiful, desirable? For Libra, it is the perfect relationship, for Taurus, emotional security (oftentimes wrapped in financial issues).
Composite chart-wise there are some upcoming eclipses that could wake up the potential of the chart and hence the relationship. There was already a powerful beginning eclipse on the composite Sun at 29 Cancer. A beautiful manifestation eclipse will occur on the same point (as well as the Mercury and Venus, communication and love) in January 2010. And lastly, a third and final flowering in July of 2010.
If you can wait out the next few months, I would look toward January and an event that will change your dynamics. In the meantime, just be Venus (which is alluring, desirable, but not pushy — that is Mars) because her Venus touches your Vertex (fate point). By spring of next year, some of the negative maninfestations of Pluto and Saturn will have already passed both your horoscopes and there will be an opportunity for a fresh start in life and love. And, if for some reason, you cannot find a way to forge a more permanent connection, Pluto trining your Vertex all of next year will put you in a fated love zone so you will be presented with numerous opportunities for passion and transformation. Best of luck!