Meghan McCain: Girl Power Apologist?

Meghan McCain: Girl Power Apologist?

Can someone please explain to me why Meghan McCain is apologizing to assholes on Twitter and in the media who criticized her for posting this pictures of herself last night?

Boobs not bombs!

After informing her Twitlist that she had decided to spend the evening at home alone, curled up with takeout and an Andy Warhol biography and joking that this officially makes her "old" (Welcome to the club, babycakes!), she uploaded the offending snapshot to Twitpic, rousing the collective and instantaneous ire of sexist asshats from every corner of the interwebs. In response to the brouhaha, she soonafter tweeted:

"so I took a fun picture not thinking anything about what I was wearing but apparently anything other than a pantsuit I am a slut"

"I am going to take some more time to think about it but seriously I was just trying to be funny with the book and that I'm a dork staying in"

"when I am alone in my apartment, I wear tank tops and sweat pants, I had no idea this makes me a 'slut', I can't even tell you how hurt I am"

And finally...

"I do want to apologize to anyone that was offended by my twitpic, I have clearly made a huge mistake and am sorry 2 those that are offended."

Yeah. You get why I heart her now?

Seriously?

Dear people who are offended by visual signifiers of female social and sexual independence, loungewear, boobies and/or Andy Warhol: suck it. Stop calling women "sluts" for daring even to hint at acknowledging their own sexual power. For realz. Your indiscriminately projected self-loathing is showing. (How embarassing.)

Dear Meghan McCain: I suspect you have become infected with the misogyny that flows so sanguinely through the veins of the party you hold dear. Please to be getting a sexism-exorcism. It's time to reconnect with your feminism. (I know it's in there somewhere!) I recommend repeated reading of The Vagina Monologues and a screening of Thelma and Louise for good measure. Kthx.

xoxo,

Julia




Comments [60]

Fastgurrrl's picture

J Dub

I just love how you write, it's so grrr8 to read and so funny! TY!! Smile

Blythe's picture

She's a joke....

No need for McIdiot to apologize for posting her hideous blubber  boobs, but she does need to apologize, every single day, just for being Meghan McCain.  Biggest spoiled brat asshole on the planet.

skate's picture

Ha ha ha ha... can't say I

Ha ha ha ha... can't say I completely agree, but I understand the sentiment.  She's an idiot, but that wouldn't stop me from rolling in the hay with her.

 

Re:  blubber boobs

Stop hatin'.  That shit is hot as hell!

Fastgurrrl's picture

Blythe

Whatever.

MacLass_19's picture

Wow

That's rather harsh. 

Diana Cage's picture

julsey

great blog, french fry.

She's only 25 and she gets a ton of attention; much of it focused on her appearance or maybe much of it due to her appearance. We don't exactly live in a society that pays much attention to what women have to say unless they are sporting a rack like that. I think distracting the patriarchy with femininity is actualy a great tool as long as you are using it to chip away at their power.

But if I had a rack like that I'd send out photos of it too. It's important to do that when you are 25, for posterity.

Julia Watson's picture

For posterity...

Cagey Cage, I totally agree about the value of distracting the patriarchy with femininity. And speaking as a big fan of your rack, I cannot help but bristle slightly in its defense.

skate's picture

Why does the rack have to

Why does the rack have to help dismantle the patriarchy?  Why not just rack for rack's sake?

Not2Taem's picture

Why knock the fringe

benefits?

skate's picture

Well, they haven't dismantled

Well, they haven't dismantled the patriarchy so far...

Steph's picture

Wow wow wow wow wow wow wow -

Wow wow wow wow wow wow wow - are people really offended by that pic?  I mean seriously? Get a grip people!

Grace Moon's picture

.

Cleavage is a weapon of mass seduction...

tweet tweet @gracemoon

itty's picture

Weapons of mass seduction!!!

Does Homeland Security know about this!!!

I wonder if they're taking volunteers to search for concealed weapons that pose a treat....

I mean threat.   Shy

Annie Oaklee's picture

good grief

Dear Meghan McCain: I suspect you have become infected with the misogyny that flows so sanguinely through the veins of the party you hold dear.

Dear Brother Moon: Have you ever been to the DU site? (I suspect you have.) Have you ever seen what happens when a pic of any woman who happens to be attractive is posted?

or maybe you just watched the past primaries?

 

Sexism does not belong exclusively to any one party.

Julia Watson's picture

Ha!

Meghan just posted a blog about all of this over at The Daily Beast, and it's so good that I'm reposting it in its entirety right here. That line line in particular is  perfect. Ha!

Don't Call Me a Slut

by Meghan McCain

"On Wednesday, I posted a hastily taken self-portrait on Twitter—which I thought was funny and silly—and within a few hours I had caused a minor media scandal. I spent most of the next day thinking about what exactly was so shocking about the picture, why there was such an immediate and nasty overreaction. After all, it’s not like I was caught making a sex tape. I certainly didn’t pose nude for Playboy. And I hadn’t even exposed a nipple.

So why all this Sturm und Drang?

Could it be it's because I have breasts? Because for those of you who didn't know, I have two. They're larger than some women's and not as big as others. I don't usually show off my cleavage—as I did in the photos I posted—which I will admit is not the smartest thing I have ever done. But it’s just not worth the drama it caused.

To be honest, I don’t feel that I have anything to feel ashamed of. I’ve always embraced my curves and will continue to do so.

To be honest, I don't feel that I have anything to feel ashamed of. I've always embraced my curves and will continue to do so. I'd rather be the size I am than a skinny model fired for being too fat. And once again, a day after writing about my weight, it’s the media that have a problem with my body.

For years I have struggled to accept the fact that the way I look in a tank top comes off more “sexual” than a flat-chested woman. And once again I was reassured by the media that someone with my cup size should always be covered up. Or what, I’ll be seen as a slut? It’s pathetic we can come so far in so many ways, but when Rep. Aaron Schock or Rep. Jeff Flake post pictures of themselves without their suits on—and their shirts, for that matter—they are proclaimed “hotties.” But put me in a tank top and I am suddenly an embarrassment to the Republican Party and women everywhere. The double standard is infuriating.

As those of you who follow me on Twitter know, I live my life very openly. I will happily tell you what I'm doing every minute of every day. I will tell you what songs I'm listening to, what movies I've seen, and what books I've read. (That’s Arthur Danto’s new biography of Andy Warhol in the photo, by the way.) I love reading other people's Tweets to me.

It's amazing what you can learn. And I've certainly endured my share of harsh comments from those who follow me. But yesterday was the first time it really wasn't fun. It's not easy to be called a slut. But I'm not giving up my Twitter just yet—I'm just going to be more judicious in how I use it. At the end of the day, I am a work in progress. I am not perfect and have never given anyone the assumption that I am. I turn 25 next week and I am still adjusting to the glare of the spotlight and making mistakes.

This is the last time I’ll ever address this non-scandal but at the very least I hope other girls can learn from this episode before they post any kind of photo online. I know I have learned a valuable lesson about the Internet and the boundaries between personal and public use with social media.

I just wanted to get that off my chest."

http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-10-15/dont-call-me-a...

Diana Cage's picture

tdb

I wish they had editors at the daily beast. I love her boobs but I hate her comma splices and her overuse of phrases like "to be honest"

Joanne Robertson's picture

Gross

Read the after comments on TDB!

Slice of the straight world mentality - right there!

Rusty's picture

Dang it Julia

Stop.Making.Me.Like.Republicans.

She had me at Sturm und Drang

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Diana Cage's picture

oh rilly?

I bet she had you at the d cups!

 

 

Rusty's picture

yes, rilly

Well, they might have gotten my attention but her use of Sturm und Drang sealed the deal.

Not apologizing at all for showing love to women with curves.

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Diana Cage's picture

no apology necessary

I was just pointing it out. They got my attention too.

This wouldnt have become boobgate if there werent 800 gajillion pervs trolling twitter. Her best bet is to stop reading her twitter replies.

Lake's picture

Me too!!!

I can't think of anything to say.....I keep scrolling back to the pick.....I'm so distracted....those are nice...and she should show them often....WOW!!!

I need some pillows like that....I'm just sayin.....I think I might be little in love.....for all the wrong reasons!!! Wink

Lake

Lake's picture

See...

I can't even spell picture right......;)  

Lake

Julia Watson's picture

I begin to see why Moon

I begin to see why Moon crushes so hard on MM... and I must admit that there is a sexy "dark side of the force" allure to certain Republicans. Okay, maybe just MM's particular brand of GOP-dom.

Rusty's picture

Yikes

Yikes, Julia please do not abbreviate with the initials MM when talking about Republican women. I'm a little tired and forgot who we were talking about. My brain flashed on:

Mary Matalin (evil enough to hoodwink James Carville)
Michelle Malkin (eviler)

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Joanne Robertson's picture

Ugh. Michelle Malkin

makes me get that R woman "crazy eye"!

Not2Taem's picture

LOL

Wink

Tex's picture

Ummmm

nice cleavage.....lord have mercy! I have been trying my dangedest to NOT think about boobs, sex, etc for weeks - keeping focused on the task at hand! But good goddess I am about to explode!

Need some relief in Maine,

Tex

Twitter Time @kdhales

Robin Rigby's picture

But if you're keeping focused

But if you're keeping focused on 'the task at hand' you should be satisfied.  Right?

Tex's picture

You're right!

I'll take care of that a little later.....  

Wink

Twitter Time @kdhales

Not2Taem's picture

Waiting

I was wondering how long it would take for you to comment on this. Wink

Hope all is well in the back woods. Sending plaid flannel hugs. With the first 3 buttons undone. Innocent

Tex's picture

Tease!

Good thing they're unbuttoned 'cause I'd be rippin' 'em off! Supposed to snow tomorrow....that'll cool me off!

Twitter Time @kdhales

Not2Taem's picture

LOL

When I lived in the UP, I had a cute little sauna in the backyard. One day I let a neighbor convince me to observe the local tradition of following up with a roll in the snow. Shock

That damn sure didn't happen again. 

Tex's picture

No rolling in the snow for me!

Rolling, yes, but not in the snow!

Twitter Time @kdhales

Lake's picture

A roll....

in the snow......could be fun....I'm just sayin!!! Wink

Lake

Robin Rigby's picture

Are they calling for snow in

Are they calling for snow in Maine the first week of November? Smile

Tex's picture

Hope not...

we have been and are continuing to make a huge push for early voting to our supporters! If we can get them out to vote we'll win, but....

Twitter Time @kdhales

Not2Taem's picture

send some Velvetpark feminist tweets her way.

Perhaps I misinterpreted this; it sometimes happens without voice and body language. I read it as Megan needing hints on how to be a feminist.

Joanne Robertson's picture

No

we should remind and reassure her, that she should not have to become a 'neuter' in order to be taken seriously.  Nore should she feel the need to apologise for having breasts.

Not2Taem's picture

OK

Sorry about the misinterp. I don't think she was apologizing. At all.

I am a huge fan of well played snark and I think Megan's play her excelled in that area.

Not2Taem's picture

I don't understand

why folks think she is not feminist based on this. The picture adds a whole different level of meaning to her message. She is rubbing their noses in her independence.

I think its awesome.

Julia Watson's picture

Wait. Who's saying she's not

Wait. Who's saying she's not a feminist based on this? I've just been hearing them call her "a slut."

Joanne Robertson's picture

Her comment about

how she is viewed when she's not wearing a black pant suit, is sad but true.

Unless she has her lady parts covered and buttoned down, she is taken about as seriously as one of the Girls Next Door (Playboy) ... a sad reflection of the society we live in.

As a blonde, I've often felt people project that stereotype on me and assume I'm a dumbass ... I would imagine with large boobs, it's twice as bad!

Joanne Robertson's picture

I think we need to

send some Velvetpark feminist tweets her way.

Although, I'm still wondering why she gets so much attention? ... So she's a Republican who likes the gays! ... Is that enough to make us fall at her feet?

The fact her party, views her attitude as fresh and radical, is plain sad Puzzled

Julia Watson's picture

Good idea

I tweeted this blog at her, for starters. It is sad that her party views her that way, but my hat's off to her for her ongoing attempt to lead them into the 21st Century.

Joanne Robertson's picture

Yes

I'll give her credit for trying to drag them towards the light Grade

Not2Taem's picture

picture #2

Julia,

Did Megan post the second picture with her apology, or did you add that?

Julia Watson's picture

That's actually the

That's actually the background for her Twitter page right now. She's got it tiled all over. Apologies for the confusion.

Not2Taem's picture

in that case

I love this woman!  Big smile