December Relationships

Q:  My Sagittarius lover came in like a whirlwind and left just as quickly. We had a fiery romance; well, actually a fling, and then she disappeared. I am totally confused and distraught as I thought the chemistry was great between us.

A:  Well this is the downside of Sag. I hate to perjure any sign, particularly my own, but some Sags are rather promiscuous. They are interested in the adventure and drama and as soon as things settle down, they are outta there. What modifies this behavior is a strong Saturn or Capricorn signature (longevity) which she does not possess. 

Scorpio Chart

Yes, I can see the sexual chemistry, two-way Mars/Jupiter contacts (Mars being sex, Jupiter being more, over the top). Your Moons are in a nice quintile aspect which suggests some sweet compatibility and intuitive understanding of each other. Her Uranus to your Moon wakes up your caring nature and your Uranus to her Venus gives the relationship a sparkling quality. Alas, Uranus is oftentimes associated with on and off again OR quick flings. 

Neptune (planet of illusion, glamor, disillusionment) is also active in your synastry. Your Neptune squares her Moon and her Neptune is on your Sun so no one has her head on straight. While Neptune is definitely magical, it does not bode well for a clear-eyed view of reality. 

Your planetary connections actually do not have the customary obsessive-compulsive links such as Venus/Pluto, Moon/Pluto or Moon/Mars. These generally show up in intense sexual or power-based associations.

That being said, what I think was so compelling about the relationship for you is the past life association you share. Your Venus is conjunct her Libra South Node, indicating a former romance or marriage.  Her Sun/Mercury on Your South Node would intimate her role as husband in previous incarnations.  This was definitely a reunion of sorts.

It is true that a South Node connection acts like a giant sucking sound.  You are pulled in and unless there are North Node connections for a future-based relationship, you eventually bleed each other dry.

The composite relationship chart also shows heavy duty karmic ties. The composite South Node in Scorpio is already pretty dark, indicating betrayal, abandonment or possession around sexual matters. Add to that the passel of planets conjoining that South Node, and you have a major story around deception, triangulation and misuse of sexual or religious power. Your