In Bed With J. D. Bauchery by Anna Romer. 5.15.08 pics courtesy of J.D. Bauchery
“I like to fuck and am not afraid to say it.”
So reads J. D. Bauchery’s profile blurb where she serves as porn reviewer and sex advice columnist on HotMoviesForHer.com. She’s not lying, kids.
I recently had the honor of sitting on her bed in her hotel room at the Dinah on Sunday morning. Equal parts sex kitten, goddess, sexpert and warrior for all things queer, J.D. Bauchery deserves your attention, dear velvety readers. Let’s just say this is one dyke who left more than satisfied. God, my job sucks.
Vp: Tell us a little bit about yourself and what got you started on this site, HotMoviesForHer.com?
JD: I’m actually in the process of getting my masters degree in human sexuality education and I have an undergrad degree in journalism and women’s studies. One of my colleagues at school had my job writing porn reviews, toy reviews. She left to go to Edenfantasys.com. and recommended me for the job. They hired me. I love porn and I love talking about sexuality in all its aspects, in many different ways. I feel that in the academic sexuality field, porn’s never talked about and it’s sort of stigmatized. It’s set up as if it’s some male driven dirty market where it’s all about degrading women. So I’m really excited I’m working for a female friendly site, really queer friendly. We cater to what women want. We never say we know what you want. We know that women want a million different things and that a million different things turn people on. Any kind of sexuality, any kind of porn, it’s never just one thing. We offer the entire range of everything. I know tons of gay and straight women that love gay male porn sex and they watch it. That’s what turns them on. We offer sex tips, an advice column. That’s what I do. I write the advice column that is non-judgmental, with accurate information. We do porn reviews and tell the truth. This movie sucked, whatever. We do sex toy reviews, which is really fun. We can tell it like it is, for e.g., this didn’t reach my clit, and it was supposed to do so. We’re really honest about it and I think that’s appreciated. We’re not sugarcoating anything.
The best part of the job is our awareness that we are not trying to force any sort of sexuality