Here's a hot topic that I know we all love to discuss. This week, Queerty posted a blog about a speech in which gay film directorTodd Holland (Malcolm in the Middle, among other things) advised young gays not to come out of the closet if they want to make it in the film and TV industries. I suppose he would know best. But still, this always irks me. Mostly, it messes with this ideal I have in my head of a big, gay, happy Hollywood. Imagine the rom-coms, the galas, all the hot butch movies! Like I said, this is my fantasy.

While I appreciate this dude's candor, I think it would be great if his speech went something more like, "It sucks that in this day and age, we still have to be in the closet if we want a successful career in showbiz, especially considering that about 99% of us are homos. Help us change the industry, fight the power, screw the man (literally)!"
As the Queerty blog points out, "...we live in an era where there are no secrets, just camera phones and Twitter, and it's almost as foolish to think you can score an acting career in Hollywood as it is thinking you'll be able to do it and keep your sexuality a secret." They're right, there are Alice Pieszeckis at every party just dying to out you on their blogs (i.e. me. JK)















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I COULD NOT DISAGREE WITH
I COULD NOT DISAGREE WITH THIS DIRECTOR MORE:
For the most part, "we" are an invisible minority. We have the "luxury" or in reality, the curse of blending in to our surroundings like chameleons. Unlike other minorities, except perhaps religious, we have to actually take initiative to allow our true selves to "come out" of the closets into which we have stuffed ourselves and into the living room of mainstream society. One may ask "what motivation do I have in coming out with all the prejudice and hatred cast towards 'gay people'"? The question provides its own answer. The only way to eliminate prejudice and hatred is to "come out" and allow our true selves to be known.
For the most part, "we" are an invisible minority. We have the "luxury" or in reality, the curse of blending in to our surroundings like chameleons. Unlike other minorities, except perhaps religious, we have to actually take initiative to allow our true selves to "come out" of the closets into which we have stuffed ourselves and into the living room of mainstream society. One may ask "what motivation do I have in coming out with all the prejudice and hatred cast towards 'gay people'"? The question provides its own answer. The only way to eliminate prejudice and hatred is to "come out" and allow our true selves to be known.
Statistics indicate that we are only 4-10% of the population, but who really knows because there's a whole spectrum of sexuality and a whole lot of fearful silence. As more of "us" emerge from the closet, our voices grow louder, but echoes only travel so far. We need allies from the broader community to join us in our quest because that's where we live, and that's who we are, as part of the "tossed salad" of our society. The people in the broader community of which we are a little part, are the ones who ultimately make life altering decisions that affect us. The "broader community" comprised of us, vitriolic religious zealots and everybody in between.
Shame and secrecy are our greatest oppressors. When we live in the closet undetected or even when we live outside of the closet in shame, hate mongers can depict us in any form...as monsters, perverts, sinners, child molesters, devils, on and on. The very act of being who we really are in this world without fear or shame destroys their greatest weapon... the imagination of an uninformed person.
sorry, i pasted the first
sorry, i pasted the first paragraph of my comment twice. but there is a "compelling" third paragraph I don't want you to miss hence this reply!
Oh good lord *sigh* :roll:
Oh good lord *sigh* :roll:
For cripe's sake, Prop 8 has
For cripe's sake, Prop 8 has the CA homos spooked!
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I thought he said this at a
I thought he said this at a panel (probably at OutFest) and there was another panelist who disputed his idea? I can't remember where I read about it and am only home for a few minutes so don't have time to look it up.
I believe he also said something about an A-lister coming out being the turning point we needed. Now, I know that the general public has a short memory but Rock Hudson anyone? And while she may be with a guy right now Angelina Jolie has never denied being bi and made the biggest budget films of her career since being honest about that. Besides, everyone has always just assumed (whether she admits it or not) that Jodie Foster is gay. There's lots more examples.
I think Hollywood is still living in the 50's and thinks that the public is just not ready for gay people in their movies, which I think is patently ridiculous. If they all realized that we're living in a different era and got over their homophobia they'd find the audience for the most part doesn't give a crap as long as the movies are good.
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I'm highly skeptical of
I'm highly skeptical of anyone who goes around telling other people what they ought to be doing or not doing with their life. And if "making it" in Hollywood is more important to you than getting to really know yourself or truly living out who you actually are, well then... I think you'll end up living the kind of life that such people end up living.
This reminds me of the
This reminds me of the butchest gym teacher in my high school pulling me aside one day and telling me to "femme" it up.
"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna
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Great blog! It is so sad that
Great blog!
It is so sad that in 2009 people still need to be "told" to be closeted in the field of entertainment (not only in Hollywood but worldwide).
We all know of stories (or have experienced them ourselves) of being fired or contracts not being renewed for being "out" (and proud and loud!) on the job.
Nevertheless, I need to add that thanks to those fearless people who have come out in the past, doors are still being opened everywhere to this day to younger generations who choose to be out.
And maybe one day our films will get funding and LGBTQ young ones will have yet more opportunities to be themselves at work.
Just a thought.
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