Diana Cage & Professor Crandall: Gender & Sexuality Part Nine
March 21st, 2009 | 1:01 am
Part Nine of Gender & Sexuality with Diana Cage and Professor Crandall takes place in a hipster joint in Brooklyn. In this episode Cage and Crandall discuss the Lesbian Ex phenom and Diana introduces the concept of "sports dating."
i knew that paris was the western world's aesthetic dictator, as new york was the united states'. having done nyc, i felt i needed to do paris. and then i was *blown away* by the beauty of the city, unimaginable a city could be so beautiful. and then i spent years investigating the pleasures of france, which are multitudinous.
quebec's not bad either!
Submitted by Erin Blackwell (not verified) on Tue, 2009-03-24 15:42.
i remember now a german complaining how a bunch of french lesbians took *forever* to pick a restaurant. i don't see this as a big minus, either taking one's time or weighing pleasures or an embarrassment of choices
Submitted by Erin Blackwell (not verified) on Mon, 2009-03-23 20:18.
I have a european joke for you
Whats the european dream?
when english are policeman
french make food
german make cars
italian make love
and swiss manage it all.
whats the european nightmare?
when english make food
french make cars
germans the policeman
swiss make love
and italian manage it all.
Julia, I had forgotten! Hilarious - 3 minutes, whatever, rapture woman - and that word "obey".....here we are in 2009, and ya'll are still going strong.....sweet! Thanks for the link!
Yeah, that naming her here thing was a little bit of revenge on my part. It was sort of a weird action and I debated a bit whether it was right or not... I'm still unsure about it. And I think I may delete my comment. But in the moment it felt right.
Submitted by diana cage (not verified) on Mon, 2009-03-23 11:10.
I don't set out to attract the married/crazies (right now I don't set out to attract anyone), they manage to find me. Like I said, it's a running joke, but occasionally it gets a little spooky.
I'm not one for the whole sport-fracking scene (one night stands, threesomes, etc), so I'm fairly selective (read picky) about who I get involved with. My problem is, as good a judge of character as I am under most circumstances, when it comes to romance, I totally suck at reading people, and weeding out the crazies, the users, and the ones who later turn out to have spouses/partners. A lot of the women I know have been badly hurt by this sort, to the point where they are skittish themselves about dating. The Inland Empire seems to have a very high population of crazies/users/married out cheating.
With the sort I tend to attract (I think you already know that history), I gave up on dating altogether.
While it sucks not to have someone I can cuddle with and share my dreams and adventures, my stress level has come way down in the last year or so since my last ex and I parted ways. Maybe I'll try again after I move out of California (I'm thinking of moving back to Mass), and if I'm still somewhat healthy, I might try the whole romance thing again.
Still haven't worked out the logistics of moving yet, and I'm definitely uncertain about taking another chance on romance with everything going on in my life right now. Right now, my thinking is that it is my fate to remain single. The Jewish side of me would definitely feel guilty about involving a romantic partner in my health issues, and the potential pain that would cause them.
Okay, Erin, I just have to ask. What's up *with* the asterisks? Is there a *special* emphasis of some sort? I'm thinking this may be a new *poetic* tool. Tool? Hmmm. Maybe that's the word that should be in asterisks.
Submitted by Lezbeth (not verified) on Sun, 2009-03-22 21:03.
Well, alrighty then. If you'd like a suggestion, I'd say take the attic room so you don't have to listen to everyone's comings and goings...or I guess that would be cummings and goings.
Submitted by Lezbeth (not verified) on Sun, 2009-03-22 20:54.
Comments [229]
LOL!!!! ;)
LOL!!!!
Lake
Sorry - couldn't resist...
Sorry - couldn't resist...
i knew that paris was the
i knew that paris was the western world's aesthetic dictator, as new york was the united states'. having done nyc, i felt i needed to do paris. and then i was *blown away* by the beauty of the city, unimaginable a city could be so beautiful. and then i spent years investigating the pleasures of france, which are multitudinous.
quebec's not bad either!
Oh and i'v forgot to talk
Oh and i'v forgot to talk about sharing political indignation and long ride on bike side by side
-Do not follow me, I'M LOST-
... as English do.
... as English do.
But wen you have moved in
But wen you have moved in france, don't you already had that prejudice?
-Do not follow me, I'M LOST-
living in france, studying,
living in france, studying, loving, eating, drinking...
julia you've been hiding
julia
you've been hiding things from me. this is fabulous.
I really liked your comment
I really liked your comment here, Yonks.
my pleasure, maybe you'v
my pleasure, maybe you'v already knew it.
Its your marmite thing who made me remind.
-Do not follow me, I'M LOST-
what do you mean?
what do you mean?
-Do not follow me, I'M LOST-
Erin, i think you have a
Erin, i think you have a positive prejudice toward frenchs. i wounder were its from
-Do not follow me, I'M LOST-
Slutty and Proud! :D
Slutty and Proud!
Well, kinda. :lol:
Well, kinda.
Roeg strike through :!:
Roeg strike through :!:
So many women, so many
So many women, so many states, so much satisfaction
Crimany, that makes me sound slutty, doesn't it?
Lake
Does this mean that you are
Does this mean that you are being OTA for someone who is putting you up when you put out?
Are you getting your ass out of town; as in you go to some far away local and she puts out?
Or do you only get with women you meat meet who are from out of town, and thus leaving soon, never to be seen again?
So many choices! :roll:
i remember now a german
i remember now a german complaining how a bunch of french lesbians took *forever* to pick a restaurant. i don't see this as a big minus, either taking one's time or weighing pleasures or an embarrassment of choices
I wouldn't know where to
I wouldn't know where to begin......
Play rugby.....
Play rugby.....
Ha ha!! I love that - thank
Ha ha!! I love that - thank you very much mon amie xxxxx
negotiate
negotiate
tweet me tweeps @gracemoon
BritWit, When things get
BritWit,
When things get tough, just make a mental list of all the Mother-in-law stories you can tell us when she goes.
french cars aren't that bad.
french cars aren't that bad. it's hard to think of what they'd do badly.
HAHAHAHA. An oldie but a
HAHAHAHA. An oldie but a goodie...
I have a european joke for
I have a european joke for you
Whats the european dream?
when english are policeman
french make food
german make cars
italian make love
and swiss manage it all.
whats the european nightmare?
when english make food
french make cars
germans the policeman
swiss make love
and italian manage it all.
-Do not follow me, I'M LOST-
hoping to see you soon, we'v
hoping to see you soon, we'v miss our britWit
-Do not follow me, I'M LOST-
Ah so that's why we haven't
Ah so that's why we haven't seen you. I forgot about the visit.
xoxo - pK
"Fight Prime Time. Read a Book"
Thanks Tex. Last day is
Thanks Tex.
Last day is Thursday......
Julia, I had forgotten!
Julia, I had forgotten! Hilarious - 3 minutes, whatever, rapture woman - and that word "obey".....here we are in 2009, and ya'll are still going strong.....sweet! Thanks for the link!
@kdhales
You are in my
You are in my prayers......how many more days?
@kdhales
Yeah, that naming her here
Yeah, that naming her here thing was a little bit of revenge on my part. It was sort of a weird action and I debated a bit whether it was right or not... I'm still unsure about it. And I think I may delete my comment. But in the moment it felt right.
I am on day 12 of the
I am on day 12 of the mother-in-law visit from South Africa so am just dropping in for a Vp re-fuelling session while I have 10 minutes to myself!
Loving the comments as usual ladies xxx
we need to repost that video
we need to repost that video here
tweet me tweeps @gracemoon
Ha! Texy, that's the glam
Ha! Texy, that's the glam promo shot from our super sexy movie, starring Barbie T and Barbie Julia.
That shirt takes me right
That shirt takes me right back to my VERY brief Pearl Jam phase circa 1993 ... Before I discovered designer labels and credit card debt!
Could this be the return of the check?
Oh yeah!
Oh yeah!
I don't set out to attract
I don't set out to attract the married/crazies (right now I don't set out to attract anyone), they manage to find me. Like I said, it's a running joke, but occasionally it gets a little spooky.
I'm not one for the whole sport-fracking scene (one night stands, threesomes, etc), so I'm fairly selective (read picky) about who I get involved with. My problem is, as good a judge of character as I am under most circumstances, when it comes to romance, I totally suck at reading people, and weeding out the crazies, the users, and the ones who later turn out to have spouses/partners. A lot of the women I know have been badly hurt by this sort, to the point where they are skittish themselves about dating. The Inland Empire seems to have a very high population of crazies/users/married out cheating.
You're a lot younger than I
You're a lot younger than I am!
With the sort I tend to
With the sort I tend to attract (I think you already know that history), I gave up on dating altogether.
While it sucks not to have someone I can cuddle with and share my dreams and adventures, my stress level has come way down in the last year or so since my last ex and I parted ways. Maybe I'll try again after I move out of California (I'm thinking of moving back to Mass), and if I'm still somewhat healthy, I might try the whole romance thing again.
Still haven't worked out the logistics of moving yet, and I'm definitely uncertain about taking another chance on romance with everything going on in my life right now. Right now, my thinking is that it is my fate to remain single. The Jewish side of me would definitely feel guilty about involving a romantic partner in my health issues, and the potential pain that would cause them.
It was 74 deg F when I hit
It was 74 deg F when I hit Cheyenne a couple of hours ago, way warm for this time of the year here.
Anything above 70 deg F, I'll gladly take!
Yes, this one I must
Yes, this one I must remember!
I do what I can Tex.
I do what I can Tex.
Okay, Erin, I just have to
Okay, Erin, I just have to ask. What's up *with* the asterisks? Is there a *special* emphasis of some sort? I'm thinking this may be a new *poetic* tool. Tool? Hmmm. Maybe that's the word that should be in asterisks.
Lord have mercy, Lez, you
Lord have mercy, Lez, you simply make a suggestion, and I'm already getting some action - thanks!
@kdhales
No roommate but an over night
No roommate but an over night stay or weekend and I'm in
Lake
LAKE BELOW Well now, Lake,
LAKE BELOW
Well now, Lake, are you offering to be my roommate?
@kdhales
That's fine - she likes being
That's fine - she likes being on top...
Lake
Well, alrighty then. If
Well, alrighty then. If you'd like a suggestion, I'd say take the attic room so you don't have to listen to everyone's comings and goings...or I guess that would be cummings and goings.
Out of Town Ass.........no
Out of Town Ass.........no alcohol needed
Lake